we see an asian woman looking in the mirror smiling at herself and she has drawn a heart on the mirror around her face to depict self-compassion

Shifting from Inner-Critic toward Self-Compassion

Mindfulness-Based Self-Compassion (MSC) is a practice that combines mindfulness with self-compassion to help individuals respond to challenges and emotional pain with kindness, understanding, and acceptance.

MSC fosters emotional resilience, reduces stress, and enhances overall well-being. And, it is a tool you can do anywhere… for FREE!

Kristin Neff is a pioneer in the field of mindfulness-based self-compassion (MSC), blending mindfulness practices with self-compassion to help individuals navigate challenges and emotional pain with kindness and understanding.

Her work emphasizes treating oneself with the same care and compassion one would offer a close friend, especially during moments of failure or suffering.

Core Elements of Self-Compassion:
  1. Self-Kindness: Replacing self-criticism with gentleness and care toward oneself.
  2. Common Humanity: Recognizing that suffering and imperfection are part of the shared human experience.
  3. Mindfulness: Observing thoughts and emotions without judgment or over-identifying with them.
Benefits of Self-Compassion:

Research by Neff and others shows that practicing self-compassion improves emotional resilience, reduces anxiety and depression, increases motivation, and enhances overall well-being. It helps individuals handle difficult emotions more effectively, fostering greater connection with oneself and others.

Mindfulness-Based Self-Compassion Program:

Neff co-developed the MSC program, an 8-week training designed to teach people practical skills for cultivating self-compassion through meditations, exercises, and self-reflection. Her book, Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself, provides accessible insights into this transformative practice.

Listen to two of her guided self-compassion practices below. Note: before you listen, tune into your “interior landscape” and note how much activation you find in your system.

Rate what you notice on a scale of zero if you find total calm/balance, and then up to ten which indicates you have a lot of activation. Could be you are just highly energized, but it could also be stress based. Then, do another rating 0-10 after you practice the self-compassion exercise.

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